I am a new single young mother and trying to find time to do things for myself. How am I to do that when every time I go to do something for myself my son wakes up or starts to fuss as if he is going to wake up. I had people offer me help before but I have refused it because I am determined to do this all by myself. Now I realize that it gets harder as he grows up. How are you supposed to be a mother and still be able to have time for your self when they are this young?